Born with a very bad stutter… I found it very difficult to speak... but as I got older... I discovered that women love men who are good listeners. They used to tell me their problems... and I got pretty good at giving advice.
I guess they felt safe telling me their secrets... because... given the fact I could hardly speak... I could hardly betray their trust…
Top 5 First Date Worries For Men
1 – You will be different from what he expected.
2 – He won’t be the only man you are interested in.
3 – He will get physical too soon and blow it.
4 – You won’t go out on another date with him.
5 – He won’t be able to start a good conversation.
5 Things A Man Will Instantly Notice About You
1 – Your complexion (Tells a man how healthy you are)
2 – Pitch of your voice (High pitch voice more attractive than low voice)
3 – Hip to waist ratio (70/30 best)
4 – What’s fake about her (More fake stuff, false eye lashes etc… more high maintenance she is)
5 - Length, thickness and quality of your hair (Another health indicator)
5 Things You Should Never Say To A Man
1 - “We need to talk”
This produces the ‘oh shit’ reaction… and we go on the defensive.
2 - “Is she prettier than me?”
This is like the ‘Do I look fat in this’ question. We know that if we give the wrong answer… we are in big trouble… so we go on the defensive.
3 - “Don’t bother… I’ll do it myself”
That makes us feel useless and un-wanted… and we resent you for making us feel that way.
4 - “Did you sleep with her?”
This makes a man think… ‘If I say yes she’ll be unhappy with me, if I say no, she won’t believe me, so I’m screwed either way’. Men can be very self-conscious about their past sex life… just like a woman can be.
5 - “Nothing’s wrong”
When a man asks you ‘are you ok’, and you answer ‘yes’, even though you aren’t ok, we know you are lying, and we resent having to ask 50 questions to find out what the problem is.
Born in the small town Shipley, ENGLAND
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